Frequently Asked Questions
What is CAROLINA KINKY?
CAROLINA KINKY is a party host providing events at a PRIVATE residence that we share for exclusive lifestyle parties
Who can come to The House?
Our parties are by approved reservation and invitation only. There is a nice crowd of people who come to our parties of all backgrounds, ages, and experience. Anyone that would like to attend one of our parties must email us with a picture, so we know who is coming. We can only allow limited number of people to the party, which varies based on time of year. The individuals that attend our parties come from all walks of life but share one thing in common; they want their lifestyle experience to be a PRIVATE matter. When registering, parking is a factor- so if you plan to UBER/LYFT, or carpool with others, please specify.
How much does it cost to come to The House?
Please see our donations page.
What are the facilities like at The House?
We have a large party/group area with seating, a full kitchen, sitting room with XXX video, bathrooms, on-premise rooms that are open all evening so you can play when you are ready, hot tub, 16' x 40' in-ground pool and outside seating as well.
Do you sell or serve alcohol at The House?
No. We do not buy, sell, serve, or hold any alcohol at our parties. Our parties are BYOB, so you may bring your own alcohol; however, that is limited to beer and wine products only. No hard alcohol will be allowed on the property due to NC laws. We also do not take or hold your alcohol for you; we do have two refrigerators that you may use to place your drinks in to keep cool, but we are not responsible for or keep an eye on your drinks. The refrigerators are open to everyone to use and are in plain sight for everyone to see. That does not mean someone might accidentally grab your drink by mistake. If you are unsure, then you are more than welcome to bring a cooler to place your drinks in and keep with you.
Do you have to "swing or play" at The House?
Absolutely not. There is NO pressure at all to participate. Our parties create a fun and open experience for couples, males, and females to explore, play, or just meet other like-minded people in a private environment. Rooms are open all evening so people who want to play can play at any time. Our party room is open all evening as well and hosts lots of hot action during an evening. Participation in the lifestyle is an individual choice and not required or expected.
Do you have to be a member?
No. There is no membership. It is a totally private party and is not open to the public. We do not ask for any personal information such as your home address, phone number or email address. Our parties are invite only; and only individuals that register and approved attend our parties.
Do I have to sign anything?
Yes. The only thing that everyone who attends our parties must sign is an agreement form that states you are at least 21 years old and understand that our parties are of an adult nature, and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. Also, that we do not sell, serve or provide alcohol to anyone and no drugs are allowed on our property. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, then you are at our club of your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. This agreement is then securely filed away and never given to anyone.
Are there Non-Smoking areas of The House?
Yes. All indoor rooms are non-smoking. You may smoke outside in the pool area, but please respect that this is a private residence and use the ashtrays that are provided.
Are there hotels in the area?
Yes. There are 10 hotels within 2 miles. If you want a list of the hotels email us. If you don't want to drive from the hotel to the party, we will come and pick you up from the hotel. Also take you back to the hotel. We all know people that drink responsibly and have designated drivers, which is common sense. If you drink too much and need a ride to the hotel, there will be someone there that can drive you. Not everyone drinks. Everyone should know, a drunk person is not going to be fun for anyone here at our parties.